The Power of Attachment in Healing Relationships with Geoff Steurer (Episode #53)

The Power of Attachment in Healing Relationships

with Geoff Steurer

 

In this episode of the Human Intimacy Podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner welcomes his longtime friend and colleague, Geoff Steurer, a licensed marriage and family therapist and expert in relational healing. Together, they dive into the crucial role of attachment in relationships, especially in the aftermath of betrayal and addiction.  

The conversation explores how attachment bonds shape our experiences of intimacy, trust, and security. Geoff and Kevin discuss common attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—and how they influence relationship dynamics. They address the unique challenges couples face when navigating the tension between wanting to stay together and the pain of betrayal.  

Listeners will gain insights into:  

- Why attachment is not a choice but a fundamental human experience.  
- How attachment wounds impact relationships after infidelity and betrayal.  
- Practical strategies for healing and strengthening bonds.  
- The role of reassurance, validation, and vulnerability in rebuilding trust.  
- Overcoming common obstacles like sexual desire discrepancies and emotional disconnect.  

As a preview of the upcoming Human Intimacy Conference on March 14-15, 2025, Geoff shares how his session will provide a deeper dive into attachment wounds and betrayal trauma.  

If you’ve ever struggled with trust, emotional safety, or relationship recovery, this episode provides practical tools and compassionate guidance for navigating relational challenges with greater awareness and intention.  

Resources Mentioned: 
1. Human Intimacy Conference (March 14-15, 2025)

– Featuring leading experts, including Geoff Steurer, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Michelle Mays, and Dr. Kevin Skinner.  
   - Learn more: [HumannIntimacy Conference 2025 Use Coupon Code 50off

2. Books & Research:  
   - Hold Me Tight– Dr. Sue Johnson (Emotionally Focused Therapy and Attachment Science)  
   - Attached – Dr. Amir Levine & Rachel Heller (Understanding Attachment Styles)  
   - The Power of Attachment — Dr. Diane Poole Heller  
   - Love 2.0 – Dr. Barbara Fredrickson (The Science of Creating Love)  

3. Therapeutic Approaches Discussed:
   - Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)  
   - Polyvagal Theory – Dr. Stephen Porges  
   - The Impact of Early Attachment Experiences on Adult Relationships  

4. Geoff Steurer’s Work & Resources:  
   -Website: GeoffSteurer.com  

Join us in this enlightening conversation to better understand attachment and how it shapes the way we love, connect, and heal in relationships.