The Human Intimacy Podcast

The Burden of Sexual Betrayal (Episode #23)

The Burden of Betrayal
When it comes to relationship challenges, infidelity and sexual betrayal are some of the most challenging issues to resolve. In this week's podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner discusses the Burden of Sexual Betrayal. He explores it from both partners' perspectives and highlights the painful process of rebuilding a relationship after betrayal.
Resources Discussed
Attachment Focused Family Therapy by Daniel Hughes
Rebuild Your Relationship after Sexual Betrayal by Dr. Kevin Skinner

Exploring Sexuality: Navigating the Line Between Healthy and Unhealthy Behaviors (Episode #22)

Exploring Sexuality:
Navigating the Line Between Healthy and Unhealthy Behaviors
We are all sexual beings and have natural desires that guide our behaviors. However, as we develop, our sexuality can cross lines that we regret. In this week’s podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and MaryAnn Michaelis discuss sexual connection and intimacy, and healthy versus unhealthy sexual behaviors. Join us for this information-filled episode. 
 

How to Support Your Loved One Through Mental Health Challenges: A Guide for Family Members (Episode #21)

Using the C.A.R.E.S Model to Help Your Loved Ones Dealing with 
Mental Health Challenges (Episode #21)
We live during a time when mental health challenges have significantly increased over the past few decades. Some research suggests that we are ten times more likely to have depression than we were fifty years ago.
Suppose you have a loved one struggling with anxiety, depression, or other mental health issues. In that case, we invite you to listen to Dr. Robinson and Skinner as they discuss this important topic. They will be covering the C.A.R.E.S Model in-depth. If you want to help your struggling loved one, this podcast will provide valuable insights.
The C.A.R.E.S. Model
C = Communicate actively
A = Advocate for their needs
R = Respect their journey
E = Educate yourself
S = Support healthy habits
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Resources Mentioned in This Podcast:
National Alliiance on Mental Health (NAMI)
https://www.nimh.nih.gov/
 
 
 
 
 

Heart to Heart: Q&A on Strengthening Intimacy and Your Relationship Skills (Episode #20)

Heart to Heart: Q&A on Strengthening Communication and Intimacy in Your Relationship Skills
Join me, Dr. Kevin Skinner for a one on one conversation as I answer some of the common questions I receive as a Marriage and Family Therapist. Questions discussed in today’s podcast include:
What can I do if I can’t get the people close to me to open up.
What can I do to stop my unwanted sexual behaviors?
How can I overcome a fear of intimacy and being close to others?
I have been holding back from telling others about being betrayed, what do you think I should do?
Sources discussed in this podcast:
https://www.humanintimacy.com/course/treating-sexual-addiction
https://www.humanintimacy.com/course/human-intimacy-free-webinar-series
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5 Simple Evidence-Based Daily Rituals to (Help You) Stay Afloat and Successfully Navigate Stress and Chaos (Episode #19)

PIERS: 5 Simple, Evidence-Based Daily Rituals to (help you) Stay Afloat and Successfully Navigate Stress and Chaos.
Life can be hard, and at times it can feel hopeless, helpless, and even out of control. 
We invite you to embark on a journey with us as we deep dive into the world of simple, grounding, evidence-based daily rituals for optimal living. These practices will help you improve your relationship with yourself and others. They will also enhance your physical, emotional, and mental health as you discover and develop these anchors to keep you afloat and thriving amidst life's daily challenges.
Resources Discussed During This Podcast:
Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-Being by Dr. Martin Seligman
Lost Connections by Johann Hari
A special thanks to McKay Hatch for the music.  You can learn more about McKay at:
https://youtu.be/BPmF47qHYbg?si=yWRL3H47q2f6HHZt

The Anatomy of a Sincere Apology (Episode #18)

The Anatomy of a Sincere Apology
While we all may want to hear someone close to us apologize for what they did to hurt or offend us, in this episode Amy and Dr. Skinner discuss how to improve your approach when you say “I’m sorry.” In fact, this episode you will learn why “I”m sorry” often is not enough.
Learn to strengthen your relationships, as you learn to apologize.
 
References Discussed:
How Can I Forgive You (Janice Abram Spring)
Rebuild Your Relationship after Sexual Betrayal (Dr. Kevin Skinner)
 

Cultivating Connection: The Mindful Approach to Better Relationships (Episode #17)

Cultivating Connection:
The Mindful Approach to Better Relationships
Welcome to the Human Intimacy Podcast, this special episode is dedicated to enriching your personal connections through the power of mindfulness. Join us as we explore the principles of mindfulness with our esteemed guest, Dallin Bruun, who studied Mindfulness at UMass Medical Center under the guidance of Jon Kabat-Zinn. In this episode, we delve into practical strategies for applying mindfulness in your day to day life. Dallin provides two enlightening mindfulness exercises backed by research that demonstrates how mindfulness can improve mental health and strengthen relationships. Whether you're looking to deepen your understanding of mindfulness or simply learn how to slow down in this chaotic world this episode provides the tools and knowledge to help you cultivate an authentic and healthy relationship with self and others.
 

Learn to Heal Trauma: Your Body Knows the Answers (Episode #16) —Special Guest Lauren Hatchett

Learn to Heal Trauma: Your Body Knows the Answers
Do you feel tense and uptight? Do you frequently get headaches or muscle pain? If so, your body may be feeling the lasting effects from difficult or traumatic experiences. In this episode Amy Andrus and Dr. Skinner interview Lauren Hatchett a trauma informed yoga specialist. 
In this episode you will learn specific cues you can take to listen to your body as you learn to heal from old or current wounds.

Safety: The One Thing You Have to Have to Create Human Intimacy (Episode #15)

Safety: The Foundation of All Intimate Interactions
Have you ever questioned whether connecting with someone is a good idea? Or do you find that, for some reason, unbeknownst to you, you are holding back from others? In this week's podcast, Dr. Kevin Skinner and Amy Andrus discuss the most critical component of connection: Safety.
If you find that you are struggling to connect with others, this podcast will provide insight into possible reasons for why. You will also hear ideas on creating safety with yourself, even if the people around you don't feel safe to you. 
Resources to Enhance Your Human Intimacy
Transform your life with the new Human Intimacy Monthly Subscription Program. Learn more here!
Learn how to strengthen your relationship with more effective communication. Building Bridges: The Art of Communication
A special thanks to McKay Hatch for sharing his musical talents with us in the intro music. To learn more about McKay here’s a link to access his music — https://song.link/y/qHhQoebmizE
 

Discover How Developmental Trauma Hinders Adult Attachment and What You Can Do to Overcome It (Episode 14) -Special guest Jon Taylor

Discover How Developmental Trauma Hinders Adult Attachment
It's a universal experience to grapple with identity formation in childhood, especially when parents exert significant control over our lives. This podcast, featuring guest Jon Taylor, offers a wealth of expert knowledge on developmental trauma. Gain valuable insights into how early life experiences can shape relationship dynamics as we mature.
As we strive to create healthy, intimate adult relationships, we need to make sure that we address barriers such as developmental trauma. In this week's podcast, we explore how to address developmental trauma by creating boundaries in relationships with parents or other family members. Learn how to address these challenging issues to create intimate relationships now. 
One Form of Developmental Trauma
Developmental trauma can occur when a child grows up in an environment where their parents or caregivers exhibit behaviors of ownership towards them. This sense of ownership can manifest in controlling, possessive, and manipulative behaviors that can have a lasting impact on the child's emotional and psychological development.
Additional Topics Discussed: Mother Enmeshed Men
Growing up in an enmeshed relationship with a mother can have several impacts on a man's development. Firstly, these men may struggle with autonomy and forming healthy boundaries in relationships. They may have difficulty asserting their own needs and desires, often prioritizing their mother's wishes over their own.
Additionally, mother-enmeshed men may have challenges forming and maintaining healthy intimate relationships. Their dependence on their mothers for emotional support and validation can interfere with their ability to connect with a partner on a deeper level.
Resources Discussed:
Book:
Mother Enmeshed Man
Workshop:
Overcoming Enmeshment
Special Thanks to McKay Hatch for sharing his musical talents with us. Click here to listen to McKay discuss how to live life through adversity.